Arousal from interaction with women.
Question
Dear Mr. Dhananjay,
Much thanks for all your previous answers.
I have a query.
Due to the nature of my job, I interact with quite a few beautiful women from time to time and have just started started on the course of Brahmacharya.
The last time when I was speaking to a very attractive woman, I realised I was getting aroused just being close to her and interacting. In that process, my penis released some lightly viscous fluids due to the arousal but was not orgasm.
I hope that is not a break in my Brahmacharya because then i would be out of a livelihood if I have to stop interacting with women.
Please give me an answer
thank you.
Answer
Simply adhere to the practices of Yoga & Brahmacharya as have been described in past answers with cent percent honesty and devotion. Never voluntarily initiate any sexual thought, word or deed with others or with yourself. The release of sexual fluids is due to incessant susceptibility to sexuality further to strong, past sexual karma that has lead to an enslaved mind which triggers at the slightest sexual stimulus. Simply ignore it and work at Brahmacharya as described in totality. This karma will slowly dissolve if all the practices mentioned are strictly followed with honesty and devotion to God, asking for establishment in Brahmacharya.
Within a year of such honest and unbroken practice, the situation will come under better control. Brahmacharya for self-realization should be made the very purpose of life through Nishkama karma (activities carried out selflessly with the thought of God for self-realization, following which man becomes the complete tool of God who takes over the body, mind and ego )
ॐ तत् सत्
(That Supreme being is the absolute truth)