Wet dreams
Question
Good Morning Sir,
With God's grace, my period for brahmacharya is gradually increasing ... I was able to observe continence for 25 days,
then had wet dream which I was able to stop completely through
bandha, but a day later had wet dream again and could not stop it.
So are beginners bound to have wet dreams during initial months
or something could be done ?
What can be done to help start re-absorption of semen sooner?
Also while work/studying, I have a tendency to shake legs - clearly a sign of mental restlessness ... What to do?
Finally what should be preffered more : physical or mental work or more time towards meditation, which would lead to transmutation
more effectively at this stage?
My heartly thanks for showing us path to divine and a way to get away with this world of suffering ...
Answer
11. Sincere and regular efforts at a life of Yoga along with the other methods suggested is as much as the aspirant is supposed to do. When such efforts are applied correctly without any voluntary break, wet dreams gradually taper down and finally stop after one becomes an Urdhvareta in the course of a few years.
2. Shaking legs or drumming fingers is a sign of tension or restlessness. A calm, focused mind produces steadiness. Restless physical movements should be consciously stopped with effort.
3. Initially, the physical and mental activity will be more compared to meditation. After many years of advancement, these two reduce comparitively and meditation becomes longer.
ॐ तत् सत्
(That Supreme being is the absolute truth)