Masturbation & Brahmacharya
Question
QUESTION: Namastey,
I tried to practice brahmcharya to improve myself and to get a better grihast life when i would be married .But due to some confusions i always failed.To the max i could observe 10 days of ejaculaion control.
MY CONFUSIONS
1] Sexual excitations and incomplete ejaculations(very little secretions due to massage of the sexual organs) contaminates the purity of the sperms.So ejaculation becomes necessary,inorder to prevent impurity.
2] Having sythetic foods or commercial foods which includes chemichal contents(cold drinks,etc) would effect the purity of sperms formed after the food converts to sperms.So ejaculation is necessary after a period from the day on which we
had toxic food.
SO THIS IS MY innocent QUESTION :
Do i need to ejaculate for the time being ,and observe new brahmcharya without repeating the above conditions/mistakes again?
And can i practice brahmcharya by watching porn also, as ultimately,the goal is to conserve sperms.So while watching porn i would take strict care that i do not secrete any sperms/sexual fluid at all?
Kindly clear all my doubts and if possible with scientific(biological) logics. I wud be very thankful and please tell how can i find you on facebook
ANSWER: 1. One should never indulge in a voluntary break. There is no reason which can justify the same. Justifications are only excuses.
2. Watching porn equals a break in Brahmacharya. He who watches porn cannot be a Brahmachari.
If each and every past answer is slowly gone through and the essence absorbed, the reasons behind the above statements become clear.
ॐ तत् सत्
(That Supreme being is the absolute truth)
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QUESTION: Does it matters if we start observing brahmcharya on spcial days...the lucky days according to my janm kundali is monday,tuesday ,thrusday
so if i accidently mastrubate on any other day...sud i mastrubate on the lucky day and start brahmcharya
properly from that day?
Answer
1. Good and bad days are observed by people who seek worldly comforts. Such rules do not apply to people who are in the quest for truth. All days and times are auspicious for the Brahmachari aiming self-realization. Horoscopes and birth charts are not of any use in the path of self-realization.
2. My dear friend, it is very evident that you have not taken proper efforts to understand the concept of Brahmacharya. When it has been stressed over and over in more than 550 odd answers on this portal that one should never masturbate, where is the question of masturbation? Please go through all the answers first and get clear with the basics. Take 2 months for this task, to read all answers thoroughly & get clear with what Brahmacharya is all about.
ॐ तत् सत्
(That Supreme being is the absolute truth)