Relationships and Brahmacharya

Hello.

I would like to thank you for your words of wisdom which has helped me achive a better life.
I've been practicing Brahmacharya for 1 year, its was long and hard but all worthwhile.
I understand the benefit, the peaceful ness that it brings, Life is good in all walks of Life I finally feel I'm letting go of the retraints of society.
The question I would like to put to you is, because I'm practicing celebacy how can a have a loving relationship with women.
I practice yoga and excercise out doors and the feeling it brings has made me want to commit to soul to Brahmacharya, If i commit myself, can I connect with someone in a relationship
I've recently ended a relationship after a year with a Women
I never told her I was practicing Brahmacharya, because I feel people need to find Brahmacharya themselfs.
She had Cancer, before we got into a relationship and was constantly unwell at times, over the past 8 month she is never unwell and when she got a check up a lot of the cancer and gone, and all that was required was a small operation.
I belive I gave her my Energy when we had intercourse, which i belive helped cure the Cancer.
Once she was better, I belive my time with her was done.
I leave some guilt, reason being I enjoyed having a Female companion,
Can you practice Brahmacharya and be in a relationship, with someone who doesn't practice Brahmacharya.

Thank you