Nocturnal Emission from talking with girls
Question
I have been practicing brahmacharya for nearly six months... I an successful too since I do yoga and pranayama, only thing is, nocturnal emission occurs to me if I talk or chat with girls... Is it abnormal? Us there anything I can do to rectify it? I want to follow perfect brahmacharya... But this nocturnal emission bothers me... Does speaking to girls weakens us from brahmacharya? Please shed your wisdom on this and kindly help me... Very grateful and thank you
Answer
1. This is an indication that the activity is being carried out for, or is leading to connecting with the concerned people in a sexual perspective.
2. A beginner Brahmachari should limit contact (be it verbal, or mental) with the opposite sex to necessity and not more. Such contact should be brief and to the point. Else, Brahmacharya fails.
Abstain from such activity and persevere with honest practice. The problem will resolve by itself.
ॐ तत् सत्
(That Supreme being is the absolute truth)